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Supercharged Entrepreneurs,
An impossible decision is keeping me up at night...
(And it's NOT this)
I'm about to do something crazy this weekend, and I need your help deciding if I'm making a huge mistake.
You see, I'm facing a seemingly impossible choice between:
6 days with Tony Robbins at his exclusive Date With Destiny event
My first-ever competitive triathlon at Daytona Speedway
And here's the thing - they're happening on the same day!
Let me explain how I got myself into this mess...
There I was, standing poolside at LifeTime Fitness Palm Beach Gardens on Saturday, staring at my reflection in the water...
About to attempt something I've NEVER done before.
A mock triathlon sprint:
800M swim
13-mile bike ride
5K run
Why put myself through this?
Because this coming Saturday, I'm competing in my first real triathlon sprint at Daytona Speedway with two absolute beasts:
Glen Robinson (who was a guest speaker at the $Mil-A-Month Mastermind) -
A retired venture capitalist, owns multiple multinational companies and is gunning for the Ironman finals in Kona.
Tom Peterson -
An emergency room doctor and former competitive swimmer who's completed a full triathlon before with a very respectable time.
Then there's me...
A banged-up 39-year-old ex-rugby player who can barely get through a workout without injury.
But that's not even the crazy part.
You see, from this Friday until next Wednesday,
I'm spending 6 full days with Tony Robbins at his Date With Destiny event right here in Palm Beach with my wife, Keziah.
Anyone who knows Tony knows these events run LATE - sometimes until 2AM.
And here's my dilemma:
The triathlon starts at 7AM Saturday in Daytona - a 4-hour drive north (including Tesla charging time).
Meaning if I stay to the end of Tony's event, it might be 2AM...
Giving me ZERO sleep before the biggest race of my life!
As I stood there contemplating this seemingly impossible situation...
I spotted my friend John relaxing in the hot tub.
John's a fascinating character - a 60-something life coach who's in better shape than most 30-year-olds.
When I shared my dilemma, he introduced me to Tony's OOC-EMR decision-making framework.
Here's how we used it:
1. OUTCOMES First, we got crystal clear on what I wanted (in order of importance):
Get maximum value from Tony's event
Complete the triathlon in less than 90 mins, without getting injured
Not compromise my immune system
Maintain my energy and focus
2. OPTIONS We brainstormed multiple possibilities:
Skip Friday's Tony session - Nah
Skip the triathlon - Nope
Leave Tony's event early - That could work
Find alternative transport - Yeah I could Uber there
Switch race times - Not happening
3. CONSEQUENCES
We listed pros and cons for each option, considering:
Impact on learning
Physical performance
Safety considerations
Energy management
Relationship impacts
4. EVALUATE
We assessed the likelihood of various outcomes and identified the highest probability scenarios.
5. MITIGATE
How to protect your downside?
In this case, how to make the most from the event:
Ask my wife to take detailed notes and text me any homework
Make sure my nutrition is on point
Bring my blue light blocking glasses and eye mask to sleep in the Uber
6. RESOLVE Basically, make your decision and STICK TO IT!
But here's the thing, Entrepreneurs...
Even the world's best decision-making framework won't help if your self-image isn't aligned with your goals.
You see, as I stood there at the pool, what really helped me wasn't just the framework...
It was having absolute clarity about who I am and what I'm committed to becoming.
Without that foundation...
We just make decisions from our old identity - leading to the same results we've always gotten.
That's why this Thursday, December 5th at 3PM EST, I'm hosting a transformational "Self-Image Alchemy Workshop" where you'll:
Craft your new million-a-month identity for 2025
Install it at the deepest subconscious level
Align your self-image with your biggest goals
Because when your identity is fully aligned with your vision...
Decisions become clear and taking action becomes natural.
Only 7 spots left.
Click below to secure your spot:
To your elevated decisions,
Mark "The Mil-A-Month Mentor" Dhamma, MA
Trusted by 6 & 7-Figure Coaches, Course Creators, Infopreneurs & High Ticket Offer Owners to Quantum Leap Their Revenue To A Mil-A-Month.
Creator of the Mil-A-Month Coaching Method
Elevate Your Performance | Scale Your Impact | Leave a Legacy
BSc Sports Science & Physiology
MA Positive Organizational Psychology
High Performance Coach To Entrepreneurs Since 2008
Advanced NLP & Hypnotherapy Specialist
P.S.
Curious what I decided?
Join us on Thursday to find out how this story ends - and more importantly, how to make your own million-dollar decisions with total clarity.